1. Family comes first: If you are a person with wife and kids, you have to be a family man before everything else. After all home is where your return too and a good family is the biggest blessing for any person. If you like to drink, smoke etc. think of the ways it can affect your family, your kids.
2. Protect them: A woman feels most secure in the arms of her man. Kids feel most secure with a protective dad. You have to ensure the safety of your home. Teach your kids good things about safety inside and outside.
3. Spend time with them: Time is the most valuable thing in the world as the popular adage says , “Time and Tide waits for none”. So we have to manage time for various things. No matter how busy you are, always find time for your kids. Ensure them that you are always there for them. Every kid would want their dad’s time.
4. Hugs: Hug is a beautiful way to express love in every relationship. Physical contact is necessary for small kids especially to understand the love of their parents. Hug them but don’t over pamper them.
5. Play with your kids: Play games with your kids depending on their age. You can play with your toddler simple game like throwing ball and you can play any video game or outdoor games with your older kids.
6. Share duties with their mom: Every woman desire a helping hand fro mtheir husband as they are busy with kids 24/7. So little duties like feeding your kids or changing diaper of your baby can be done by you too. You can bath them, rock them to sleep esp. at night and give your dear wife some rest. This will help you bond with your kids more and also makes your wife love you even more.
7. Read them stories: Remember when your dad or mom read out stories to you in childhood? Now it’s your turn. Read their favourite story, not yours to them and it will be great fun to spend time with your child.
8. Stand by their mom: Even if your have fights with your wife, don’t fight infront of kids. No kids would like to see their parents fighting. It affects their confidence. A child may not feel confident if she / he grow in a bad atmosphere. If you have a son, he may learn the wrong values and might grow up to a man who never respect women. Love and respect your wife. You both are the team for life. If mom is happy, the kids will also be happy.
9. Give them self- esteem: This is very important. Appreciate them; don’t talk bad of them always. If they do something wrong, scold them but don’t shout but try to make them understand. Don’t deflate their ego and discourage their talents or anything.
10. Give them lessons in finance: Basic lesson is let them know that money is valuable. Give lessons in saving money by gifting a piggy bank or something when they are growing. Teach them the good ways to earn money and managing money.
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